So what is all about?

The birds do it, the bees do it and OMG do your upstairs neighbors fucking do it. WD40 anyone? Our mission on is to open things up about sex; fucking is not a taboo and it sure as fuck shouldn’t be a double standard between men, women or anything in between! Fucking is great and the best lubricant is open and honest communication.

Dating today comes in left and right swipes, digital cat calling and endless questionnaires. On we take a different approach - community. We focus on building a strong, safe and open community where people can meet up or talk about WTF ever without fear of judgement. started out in 2004 by a band of brothers: David, Julius and Robby - as the German website The brothers saw a hole that needed filling - free dating websites were hard to come by back then. The first year saw 100,000 members register, proving to the brothers they were on the right track. As popularity grew so did the site, adding new features and different types of paid memberships, but always keeping the basis of a free dating site.

Five years later was booming as one of the busiest websites in Germany. The previous year the brothers launched a beta version of and started working on new ways to process the large amounts of incoming data and ensure security for its members. New features like text and video chat were also added. Membership continued to grow and in 2012 the numbers reached an impressive 3 million users! added more benefits like versions for mobile devices and then two years later launched a low-brow arts, lifestyle and culture magazine about well, fucking of course! With the focus to create more sex-positive content and break down taboos about fucking.

And now in 2016, is baring it all with its international launch in beta. Introducing more features, more community events and more potential for well, you know….

Fucking is about feeling good and safe and making connections with people. Whether you’re in an open relationship, experimenting with new things or know exactly what you want, will have something (or someone) for you. So come by give us a try, WTF have you got to lose?

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