Tex2000 Posted November 20, 2017 Posted November 20, 2017 Ok we have the question...but what's it really mean? To me being real is about the way you act and behave even when no one is looking. It also includes my character. Am I the same guy everyday or do I pander and pretend when I'm trying to be liked? There's a quote out there about " I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for whom I'm not" simple but how many times has someone presented themselves to you one-way but when you get to know them they change. Most people do this on some level as if the person they isn't good enough.. I am somebody, so I'm true to myself and those around me. That's not always easy some friends are really only friends conditionally as can a relationship partner. So what's your take on being real?