How do guys feel about being "the lover"?

[cocoflare]

Hi! 

I have a question for all the guys here on Fuck.com 

How you would you feel if you were dating a woman who you know is already in a relationship? Basically she's cheating on her partner with you, making you the lover, or the "other man". 

Would you be turned on by the indirect humiliation of her partner? Would it make you feel powerful? Or would you feel bad over knowing you're part of hurting someone? 

 

I've asked some of my guy friends, but not really gotten a clear answer out of them. So please, share you're thoughts (and experiences? ) 

Thank you! 

[papaaji]

i will feel powerful

[dilbo]

As long as your feelings for her is just excited forbid sex and u dont fall for her, it can be a whole lotta fun.

[someone159]

I will fuck her better than him....

[edward67062]

As long as you two are not hurting anyone who cares. I bet she is doing it because you make her feel like the other don't. That is why most people cheat in the first place.

[Fatmac87]

As far as im concerned i dont care about him or his feelings im in this for my own selfish needs and wants and to please her

[Le****]

On 17.11.2016 at 3:25 PM, cocoflare said:

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 Or would you feel bad over knowing you're part of hurting someone ? 
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THIS !!

[Kooneal1982]

Well I'm in this for me.

[mock41]

Yes

[rahul07]

Don't have any problem. Sex is the nead

[tejaysolo]

yes y not

[520Silent]

My be not

[Raybaybay]

If she was unfaithful to her current spouse, she doesn't deserve to have me in a relationship. However, I would engage in sexual activity, but never would I ever be in a relationship with her. There would be no trust.

[JP8873]

That's hot. I love it.

[TAM69x]

what you don't like to hurt you .. you will not like it for others. and that is really hurt it's like killing someone you don't know with out any reasonable reason for you or your victim.

[Deleted Member]

Have been the lover for six years, never really thought about the other man, just had a good time with her once or twice a week. The other man was neither a turn on nor a turn off. It was her that was the turn on. It was a good experience for both of us, I still look back to it with thankfullness and good memories and so does she. Only after 6 years I started to get jealous which ended the whole thing, luckily we are still good friends.

[Licking-5994]

You would deserve what Karma will eventually smash you back with. If any of you take delight in this kind of thing, knowing it will wreck the head of their boyfriend or husband, then there is a specially nasty place in hell waiting for you. If the husband or boyfriend is a scumbag & beats her, then it's the opposite, Have lots of fun, wreck his head to pieces & take his place. 

[spin7cat]

As long as she's happy with what she's doing and the other guy isn't complaining it doesn't matter.

[Jo****]

If she wants to play SO BE IT, But like people r telling you don't get hung up on her, If she does it once not a problem doing it again AND THINK about the other guy she fucking over, So get here doggie style and then shove it in the old ASS REAL GOOD MAKE HERE SCRAM LIKE THE BITCH THAT  SHE IS THEN PAT HERE ON THE ASS AND SAY SHUT THE FUCK UP. JUST TO LET HER KNOW WHO IS IN CHARGE MAKE HERE PAY IF SHE WANTS TO PLAY. AND in a way its a pay back for the guy she fucking around on. Think about this if she was to take sides WHO SIDE WOULD SHE TAKE.??????

[Ma****]

On 11/17/2016 at 6:25 AM, cocoflare said:

Hi! 

I have a question for all the guys here on Fuck.com 

How you would you feel if you were dating a woman who you know is already in a relationship? Basically she's cheating on her partner with you, making you the lover, or the "other man". 

Would you be turned on by the indirect humiliation of her partner? Would it make you feel powerful? Or would you feel bad over knowing you're part of hurting someone? 

 

I've asked some of my guy friends, but not really gotten a clear answer out of them. So please, share you're thoughts (and experiences? ) 

Thank you! 

I find it exciting and stimulating.

[Tw****]

I would feel great that the girl also fancies me.  It is up to her and the other man to sort out. ps I am also into a bit of Objectiiving

[Ba****]

I have been the "other guy". What I have found is that he cheated on her in the past. My situation was that he cheated on her with her best friend. I didn't know that she was married until we had been together for a month or so but after finding out I still dated her and enjoyed our time together. Flip side was I was not emotionally committed just having fun.