His place or mine???

[Maude967]

So it's coming up to the end of the date and I totally want to go home with this guy. How do I decide? His place or mine???

[CaraVirt]

Nowadays I only date at the swinger club - no "private" dates (which for me includes also to meet in a hotel).

But when I began with swinging and dating men for ONS, for me it was allways his place.
I didn´t want to cause unexpected visits. I can´t look into heads and at a ONS I don´t get that familiar with a man, that I get to know him really well. So I didn´t reveal my address.
Ok, some dates turned into a good and near acquaintance. In this cases I sometimes met also in my place. 

btw: on my visits at his place I allways made sure, that I was "covered". Told a friend or my brother, where I would be. And called some times in between, so that she/he could be sure, that I was ok.

 

 

[Maude967]

That's a really good idea, when you do stay at his place, drop your location to a friend or someone you trust. Thanks for suggesting that! 

And also a hotel can be a really cool adventure, maybe can't afford to do it all the time, but that's a nice safe way to meet new people and not have to worry about it later if they turn out to be weirdo stalkers.

[To****]

I meet generally in public places, if you like and want, you can change the place still to a private location.

I don't like you use my home for meetings and have maybe problems after that like the way in your last post, I have one stalker in the past (he met me in front of my home, it was not planned), one of it is enough all my life

[Chandu7022]

On 5/18/2016 at 2:58 PM, Maude967 said:

So it's coming up to the end of the date and I totally want to go home with this guy. How do I decide? His place or mine???

Yours

[jaydenjames]

Pros and cons with both, at his place you can easily get up and leave whenever you want, as where at your place it could be hard to get rid of the guy if you wanted to.. On the other hand you might feel more in control at your place, unless the dude turns out to be a stalker lol 

[Le****]

... from my perspective I would choose her place, so I can go whenever I want 

[fuckycumsexy]

On 5/18/2016 at 2:58 PM, Maude967 said:

So it's coming up to the end of the date and I totally want to go home with this guy. How do I decide? His place or mine???

let him come to yours

 

[Tw****]

On 5/18/2016 at 2:43 PM, CaraVirt said:

Nowadays I only date at the swinger club - no "private" dates (which for me includes also to meet in a hotel).

But when I began with swinging and dating men for ONS, for me it was allways his place.
I didn´t want to cause unexpected visits. I can´t look into heads and at a ONS I don´t get that familiar with a man, that I get to know him really well. So I didn´t reveal my address.
Ok, some dates turned into a good and near acquaintance. In this cases I sometimes met also in my place. 

btw: on my visits at his place I allways made sure, that I was "covered". Told a friend or my brother, where I would be. And called some times in between, so that she/he could be sure, that I was ok.

 

 

Safety call should be a must!!

[fu****]

I prefer going to his place for that first time.If it doesn't work out i can escape.

[Le****]

On 2/14/2020 at 3:52 PM, fuckme-5566 said:

I prefer going to his place for that first time.If it doesn't work out i can escape.

It's a shame if they both feel that way.
I don't think it's gonna be a date.