Beatriz Posted July 7, 2016 Posted July 7, 2016 Ok this has been bothering me for a while now… I’ve been on a few dates with men I met online, and the first time we meet I always want it to be on neutral grounds, like a bar or a café etc. But so often the guy tells me something like ”babe, we already know what we want, so why waste any time? I'll come to your place, or you to mine”. And we’ve never even met before! Of course after a couple of dates (or even on the first date) when you feel like you’ve gotten to know the person a bit better it’s a different story. But to meet at home for the first time? Like do you check his ID card?? What do you do? Casual dating seems to be sooooo easy for men, but personally as a woman I’m a bit scared… Does anyone feel the same way? How do you normally do?