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sysper
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why am i usually submissive in my same sex fantasies & often very submissive? totally not into the idea of humiliation or excessive pain. but like the guy being in control of me. tying me up so i can't move or resist his moves, or to make it easier for him to do certain things to me. blindfolding me so i don't see what he's about to do, cutting off 1 of my senses & the ability to judge things around me. gagging me so i loose my main way of expressing myself to him, silencing my voice. so my voice doesn't matter. being on the receiving end of him letting out his sexual frustrations, exhausting me & leaving me drained. having some of his friends watch so other people know about my submission & vulnerability. him inviting those friends to enjoy me too. him making it clear to me he's in control of me & i'm choosing to give that control to him. him testing the limits of that control, challenging me. why does this all appeal to me?

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sysper
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now that i think about it there's a little bit more to the question. how much of this fantasy am i willing & meant to try in real life? i know it's a tough question & i definately don't expect an answer. it's something i have to workout myself. but insites are definately appreciated :)

maxy345
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we can have a sex talk
Jalis
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On 1/8/2019 at 8:52 AM, u-5c34d17bd5d4e said:

we can have a sex talk

 

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fuckme-5566
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When i was young i didn't know i was gay or bi until the first few encounters with other men.I knew i was a cross dresser but never connected that with me being transgender.I sort of muddled along but i knew something was different about me when i first wore panties,and caught wearing my first and only girlfriend's stockings.Now i just go on like and buy what my dirty little mind desires.I understand a lot of people have same sex fantasy's,and believe me your submission fantasy is very very close to mine.Im most definitely a sexual submissive but couldn't be a 24/slave.Embrace who you are.You don't have to live out a fantasy and to be honest genuine Dominants are quite rare.The real one would take care of you,even after hes beaten and abused you.The not so genuine one's sometimes don't. Good luck,enjoy the sex and maybe one day you might see if you want to make your fantasy a reality.With the right Dom though,male or female.good luck.

fuckme-5566
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On 2/2/2020 at 2:34 PM, fuckme-5566 said:

When i was young i didn't know i was gay or bi until the first few encounters with other men.I knew i was a cross dresser but never connected that with me being transgender.I sort of muddled along but i knew something was different about me when i first wore panties,and caught wearing my first and only girlfriend's stockings.Now i just go online and buy what my dirty little mind desires.I understand a lot of people have same sex fantasy's,and believe me your submission fantasy is very very close to mine.Im most definitely a sexual submissive but couldn't be a 24/slave.Embrace who you are.You don't have to live out a fantasy and to be honest genuine Dominants are quite rare.The real one would take care of you,even after hes beaten and abused you.The not so genuine one's sometimes don't. Good luck,enjoy the sex and maybe one day you might see if you want to make your fantasy a reality.With the right Dom though,male or female.good luck.

 


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