We have been together since 1999 and in our 30's. Although we enjoy our current sex life, we're looking to add to it and explore with another female. We have been experimenting with rough sex and master slave lately, finding out that we both enjoy when he has complete control over me. We are open to trying other things as well as giving him complete control over me and another female. This female would have to be at least 21 years old and since both of us are slim and average she should be as well. We are not very picky, but any decisions will be made as a couple due to we have never hidden anything from the other person and won't start now. With that said, don't get any crazy ideas about leaving me out of anything or trying to get my husband to leave me, IT WON'T HAPPEN! I know this because others have tried and failed and so will you. We are not looking for a relationship just a casual playdate.