Similar preferences as dirty talk

Most of us like dirty talk. Whether it’s sweet suggestions whispered in the ear or nasty words spat out while our hair is being pulled, a little verbal theatrics gets most people going. For those that are warming up for some BDSM play, this is often pretty aggressive and might involve insulting or belittling someone, claiming not to be interested in them, or even mocking their sexual attractiveness. For couples who regular engage in aggressive or BDSM sex, this kind of “hard” dirty talk might be a frequent part of their relationship. Certainly, those who are involved with porn, phone sex or cam sex are making the most of the power of words.
Phone sex originated in an age when phones were stationary and had cords attached to them, you know, totally pre-historic! Part of the appeal of phone sex then, was that there was no visual component. The caller enjoyed the tones of the voice, the personality of the person on the other end, and the fantasies sparked by the dirty talk hat was exchanged. Phone sex has occurred between partners who were separated by distance, but it has also been a business for decades. Numbers with special per-minute rates were set up, staffed by women of all types, and callers were pleasured for money. What's interesting is that while phone sex between partners is sex, it also plays a part in their relationship, and can be a tool for maintaining or even increasing intimacy.
Chat rooms started out as strings of black and white text on screens. The irritating and slow dial up process- hoping that your house mates (or worse your mom and dad) didn’t pick up the phone while you were in the middle of a juicy dialog. There were no pictures, so you had to wait for a picture to come in the mail. Then there were movies like Strangeland to scare the shit out of you and remind you there are creepy fuckers out there in the internet land. But it wasn’t all bad. People had to be more creative in describing what they wanted. Today, there are still traditional chat rooms, inevitably littered with emoticons, but still the art of writing has not been totally lost to the video chat. Sexting also calls for a certain skill with the digital pen. A perfect way to keep in touch with long distant lovers or a cheeky distraction at work. Looking for more ways words are sexy? Erotic Fiction, Phone Sex, Cyber Sex .

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