Foreplay & Oral

Foreplay & Oral

Foreplay is all the fun stuff that happens before fucking. Everybody involved should be getting more and more turned on as you caress, squeeze, kiss, rub and undress one another. Studies (not sure we needed a study for that, but okay) have shown that men and women often have very different ideas of what foreplay is and its importance. While for women longer foreplay is much more important, men sometimes have little imagination about what the fuck they should be doing. This can be a pretty big barrier to a satisfying straight relationship. A woman’s pleasure is greatly intensified when her partner pays attention and puts thought into the fun outside the thrust. With couples where one partner has a tendency to rush things; it's good to be intentional about planning enough time for the foreplay to lead up slowly to intercourse. This requires cooperation and communication, but the payoff is huge. A bit clueless as to what else is involved in foreplay? Here are some sexy ideas: Blindfolds, Vanilla, Handjobs, Striptease
Kissing is universally human, but it carries many different variants and meanings! Europeans kiss on the cheeks, sometimes it's once, sometimes five times. The rules are complicated, so if you're new, ask before faces start colliding. When it comes to planting one on the lips, there are even more variations. There are parent-child smacks, nervous teenage brushes, and then there's that guy you thought was cute until he began suctioning off half your face with his octopus tentacle otherwise known as his face. But once you get the basics down, don't neglect this tender art during your fornicating. Kissing is magically intimate, builds up suspense, and resolves anxieties. Make it a part of your routine, even if you're bending someone over the bathroom sink or giving head in the back of the car. Kisses open doors, mend fences, and punctuate an encounter nicely. Or roughly, however you prefer. More things to do with your mouth here: Vanilla, Oral Sex, Biting, Foreplay
Most of us like dirty talk. Whether it’s sweet suggestions whispered in the ear or nasty words spat out while our hair is being pulled, a little verbal theatrics gets most people going. For those that are warming up for some BDSM play, this is often pretty aggressive and might involve insulting or belittling someone, claiming not to be interested in them, or even mocking their sexual attractiveness. For couples who regular engage in aggressive or BDSM sex, this kind of “hard” dirty talk might be a frequent part of their relationship. Certainly, those who are involved with porn, phone sex or cam sex are making the most of the power of words.
It doesn’t always have to be about fucking… yes, we just said that. Sometimes it’s nice to do other things. Cuddling for instance, creates a lovely safe feeling between partners. Maybe you had a long shit day and aren’t in the mood for sex but want to be close to your partner. Cuddling! On your period and don’t feel like fucking? Cuddling! Don’t want sex? Cuddling! See cuddling can lead to sex, if you whisper the right things into their ear. Or it just be a nice thing to do while watching a movie or before falling asleep. Fucking is only good if there’s context and meaning behind it. Cuddling helps create trust and closeness to your partner, which will in turn create communication and then you get amazing fucking sex. Which makes us all happy. Looking for more ways to get close without fucking? Vanilla, Foreplay, Abstinence
Biting can be super sexy and for some it’s an instant turn on. When your partner(s) likes biting it’s a free-for-all leaving ‘love marks’ all over. The intensity is what drives them wild. Sweet pain can be sexy as fuck. A lot of people also take this sexy vampirism into a delicious role play scenario. Hello Dracula. While some get all hot and bothered others find biting a big turn off. They might not like the marks it can leave or it’s too intense. Or it’s simply not their thing. Consent is an important rule of thumb to follow here. Intensity is always good for fucking as long as it’s mutually agreed upon. So for those sexy vampires out there, make sure you have a safeword for when it gets too crazy. Or for those trying it out, whispering a a quick ‘You like it like that’ goes a long way in keeping your partner(s) happy. Sink your teeth into these links: Bizarre, Dirty Talk, Scratching, Female Domination
Scratching is an erotic activity that's most often done by women, but is enjoyed by both sexes. It can heighten the intensity of an encounter and feel like a naughty way to leave your mark on a hot partner. Since nerve-endings are being affected, the feeling can increase sexual pleasure, but of course it can also cause injury. It’s often a part of BDSM play, and should happen with the same level of consent as other acts. You might think scratching is always deliberate, or some kind of unspoken release of aggression, but often women can scratch a partner just because they're convulsing in such an intense orgasm that even their fingers lose control. It’s most likely to hurt if she’s grabbing on too hard, so the partner needs to speak up if they find this unpleasant. The position can be changed or her hands can be repositioned to avoid any unpleasantness. Dig your nails in and read more about how sweet pain can be: BDSM, Bitting, Handcuffs, Sadomasochism
Massage is an ancient form of seduction and pleasure, with many cultural variations. There are essential oils and creams that can add to the experience and the sensual atmosphere. Without professional training it can be tricky to find the right balance between digging too deep and being overly gentle. It's good to communicate, at least by groans and moans. Candles and music can complete the sensual mood, and of course, the massage can travel across the body. From the shoulders, back and hips, to the nipples, buttocks and genitals. The massage can evolve to include a 'happy ending', clitoral stimulation, vaginal or anal fingering, and maybe even a bit of oral. If visiting a professional, make sure you know ahead of time whether a "happy ending" is a welcome possibility, so that you don't end up disappointed, underpaying, or harassing someone without meaning to! If you liked this topic also have a look at: Vanilla, Foreplay, Handjobs
Striptease vs Burlesque: what's the difference? How's that for a tantalizing topic to discuss! Well, if you haven't seen a Burlesque show - a real one, with singing and dancing, with costumes and flamboyant characters, you haven't lived. And you certainly won't appreciate the stylistic differences. Hollywood seems to have conflated the two, but there are some keys distinctions. Both are tributes to the gorgeousness of the human body, and both are dominated by female performers. Stripping, depending on the joint you're in and its location, often involves more nudity, usually a license is required to display nudity in public. There could be many performers or just one. They might take requests, but usually the music is popular contemporary hits. Some performers are very athletic, some interact with the audience more than others. And they all enjoy a bit of cash stashed in their G-strings. (Although nowadays it's more acceptable to put a ten dollar bill instead of endless one dollar bills.) Burlesque is an American performance tradition hailing from the 30s and 40s. It's bawdy and highly suggestive - making it a lot heavier on the "tease" aspect than strip tease shows are. Often, performances take place in regular event venues. Performers have to follow the "A,B,C rule": no assholes, no nipples, no cunts. Usually a bit tongue-in-cheek, using sparkly adhesives under their complex outfits to avoid an early peeks before the Big Reveal. Burlesque performers usually make or assemble their own costumes, create their own acts. Many times they will write their own songs and choreography. Most choose to adopt a certain character while performing. It is important to know, as an audience member, that Burlesque performers often spend more money than they make on a show. Performers spend many hours of preparation for a few minutes of teasing and tantalizing. Burlesque performers don't take requests, tips, or tolerate audience interference. While stripping is more about the nudity and the athleticism, burlesque is more about theatrics. Although the majority of strip tease and burlesque performers are women, it's good to keep in mind that all performers in this industry has their own private lives. And in those lives there are all the normal complex emotional issues. They deserve your respect and cooperation in order to make the show fun and safe for everyone involved. Interaction, when asked for, is a great way to get and shake your tail feathers. Don't forget: strip tease and burlesque is not just a male spectator event. Female performers are often thrilled to be performing in front of groups of women who come to celebrate the art of 'the tease'. If this got you all hot and bothered, also have a look at: Voyeurism , Risqué Dressing, Role Play
Oral sex refers to all the sexual practices that involves the lips or tongue being placed on one partner’s genitals. Some more technical names for oral sex are cunnilingus, anilingus and fellatio. These are more colloquially known as eating pussy, eating ass, and the classic blowjob. Oral sex gave birth to the infamous 69 position, where each partner is giving the other oral sex at the same time. There's hardly a spot on your body more sensitive and that can create so many sensations than your lips, mouth and tongue. Your mouth can be used to suck, lick, nibble and kiss all the other erogenous zones- cock and balls, pussy, ear lobes, fingers and toes, nipples and so on. After sex (and of course an orgasm) wait a second and then use your mouth to get busy again, the highly sensitive bits of a pussy or cock will often be ready to send shock waves through your partner again. If you're interested in this, also have a look at: Facesitting, Ass Play, Handjobs Photos Pixelio: Rheindahlen, Wagschal
Adult movie theaters cater to all kinds of sexualities, though for most the target audience is straight men. These cinemas often run hardcore, gangbang or BDSM movies. Some theaters are venues where casual sex can happen, however, single women are a rare find at these types of places. Couples are more common, and some only allow couples in. There are certain charms in having a physical space for indulging in a bit of porn. Some adult movie theaters are set up like living rooms or occasionally like bedrooms, and some even feature live performances by strippers or erotic dancers. In bigger adult theaters, one can usually wander freely between showings. There are many surprises to stumble upon, like glory holes for starters. Usually there's one entrance fee, although this depends on each venue. Voyeurism and exhibitionism are of course well-served by these theaters. More places to sneak a peek: Sex at the Movies, Swingerclub Sex, Voyeurism
Deep throating is one variation of oral sex, where the cock is completely inside the throat. The point of this penetration is to get as deep as possible. Unlike a normal blow job where the tightness his cock feels is not as intense as by other means of stimulation. The difference with deep throating is that the muscles of the neck are tighter and feel more like a vagina or anal sex. One rather vulgar expression (used mostly in the porn industry) for deep throating is face fucking. Both straight and gay couples practice deep throating and they all seem quite contented. An important tip for the person giving: practice your gag reflex. There are different breathing techniques one can practice (and of course practice makes better) to help reduce or kill off the gag reflex. Also use spit, and lots of it. Wanna read more about sexy things to do with your mouth and tongue? Oral Sex, Blow Job, Licking
A cum shot (sometimes called facials) is called this for obvious reasons in the porn industry. This is the scene, usually the end shot, where a man ejaculates on his partner's face. Lots of porno films like to feature men’s orgasms in this way. He pulls out just before cuming and jizzes onto the face of his partner. But not every time, sometimes cum shots include an open mouth, onto a foot, chest, abdomen, ass, or genitalia.
Licking is one of the many variations of oral sex. You can lick a pussy and that's called cunnilingus. You can lick an asshole and that's called rimming. Lick me tender Obviously foreplay and sex with your partner(s) can be intensified with rimming and licking. It should come as no surprise, when done right both women and men can climax from licking and rimming. Only when everybody wants to Before you start licking and rimming each other like mad, make sure you're on the same page about it. One person's fantasy is another's nightmare- some people find the feel of tongues on their body a big turn off. It's also good to keep in mind the important of cleanliness. If you like her asshole first stay there. Don't go back and forth between pussy and asshole. Licking is Flexible Of course not everyday is the same for everyone. Some days you might like it hard and fast, others slow and easy. Licking is the same. Variety is the spice of life. Don't just dive in head first into her pussy or straightway into someone's asshole. Start out licking different parts of their body: nipples, breasts, get to know how they taste. Then go downstairs and lick away until your partner explodes in ecstasy! Men are into licking too Not only women like being licked. Men also writhe in pleasure when licked from the tip of their cocks, down the shaft, around their balls and end up with a rim job. .
Most people who give blowjobs have a routine down; they either spit or swallow the cum, and they know when they to mix it up. Since about two thirds of adults practice oral sex, the question comes up quite often. Some people think asking a woman to swallow is sexist, and that it asserts male dominance in an overly extreme way. But dominance might be play for some people, and many women like the sensation of swallowing. Others think spitting is showing rejection, and whatever the case might be for you and your partner, we have to respect people's preferences. Find related topics here: Oral Sex, Quickies, Cocks
Facesitting is sometimes called “smothering”, and it involves sitting down onto your partner’s face. People get a kick out of the smell and taste of the private parts, and the power play. Front facesitting increases playfulness and intimacy by allowing the sitter and the sat-upon to look each other in the eye, while reverse facesitting reinforces the power dynamic, especially since the sat-upon partner isn’t seen or acknowledged by the sitter. This can be taken to a whole other level by tying up or restraining the bottom partner so that the sitter is fully in control. Afraid there weren't any toys involved in face sitting? Well you're in luck. The smother box just might be the thing for you. Your head or your partner's head goes in the box, restricting movement, thus adding to the dominance factor. Then you can do all the things you want (with consent of course!) More things to do with your face and your ass: BDSM, Butts, Oral Sex
Ass play is obviously any stimulation on the back side. This could include: fingers, mouths, dicks, or toys. When toys get involved, it usually starts with a butt plug, which is used with plenty of lube to gradually expand the rectum. This can also be foreplay or a pleasurable preparatory activity in itself, so, slow and steady wins the race. A more delicate operation is the anal massage. This should only be done by an experienced and very careful person, who inserts a lubed finger into their partner’s anus. About 1-2 inches inside, at the back, one can find the male G-spot. Gentle, circular movements can produce an orgasm that is very different than the normal peak during penetrative sex. Get off your ass and start playing! Or for more ideas: Anal Sex, Fingering, Butts
Oh the magical things you can do with your fingers. This is another hot tip for those a bit lost when it comes to foreplay. And don’t be fooled, this isn’t just for women. A lot men like it too. Once again, get creative, listen to your partner. Start out slowly, play around with delicately running your fingers over their body. Moving them slowly more towards their genitals. If it’s a woman, make sure you don’t just shove your fingers inside her. Most women prefer clitoral stimulation and little anatomy tip: that’s on the outside. Some women like their vulvas to be caressed. Once she’s all wet (and if not naturally use lube) and warmed up then you can go inside. Reach up and find her g-spot, with practice you can try squirting. There’s a lot of techniques for this and relaxation is key. A lot of men also like a bit of fingering. It’s important to note that men do not secrete lovely pussy water from their anus, so lube is a good thing to have handy for this adventure. Play around with his cock and balls, get him warmed up and excited, but not too excited because going into a tight hole is no fun for anyone. Perform a bit of fellatio, lube up your fingers and start with a bit of rimming. With a bit more lube you can try to enter him. Make sure you keep eyes on him and listen if he’s liking it or not. Tickle your way to more fun. Check out these other links: Ass Play, Fingering, Handjobs
A hand job is like masturbation, but with a partner. Your partner’s hand stimulates your dick and makes you cum. It generally doesn’t involve any other body parts, but that doesn’t mean there’s only one way to wank a willy. Some guys like their hand jobs hard, others gentle. Some like to have their foreskin massaged around the head of the dick, while others like it pulled back so that the sensations on the head are more intense. When you wrap your hand around a cock, you’ll feel a ridge along the bottom running to the head. Stimulating this area is often quite pleasurable for the receiver. A cock ring or even rings on the fingers can increase sensations and prolong the pleasure. Sometimes the giver’s other hand is also involved in caressing the body, or stimulating the balls. Different sex acts are often combined with a hand job, especially a blowjob. For more things you can do with your hands: Vanilla, Fingering, Fisting
Sexy foot games are not just for foot fetishists. When you use your foot to stimulate your partner, this is called a foot job. Erotic Fun for Both Sexes Massage his cock with both feet to give him a special treat! Some women also like it when their pussy, breasts or ass are massaged with their partner’s foot. Got you hot to trot? Check out more fetishes: Nylon, Sock Fetish, Women's Lingerie
An orgasm is that climactic moment when a resounding FUCK (insert name here) can be heard as an intense surge of pleasure rushes through your body when fucking or masturbating. While 80% of men claim they almost always orgasm, only 30-35% of women say they do. For men the process can be much faster from initial arousal to the point of orgasm. But quick to cum is quick to finish. There are many claims that younger guys usually don't last as long as older men. Relax and get comfortable, most women need a long period of stimulation (usually clitoral) in order to climax. But once they do orgasm it's incredibly overwhelming and can last longer than a man’s. Women can also have multiple orgasms when stimulated properly. If you liked this topic also have a look at: Masturbation, Foreplay, Fingering
About one third of women can “squirt” during orgasm. The fluid comes from her urethra and can vary in quantity depending on the woman. Squirting isn't something to fixate on, just like having an orgasm. So no pressure, it’ll come in time. Not all women experience squirting and some not until they are older. While others drown in it. Depending on the woman’s anatomy, it might be easier to use fingers to stimulate her G-spot, other times a vibrator or dick. Some sexual positions that usually work well are the cowgirl or doggie style. Mostly because the woman has more control over the angle of insertion. Want to read more? Then check out: Cum Swapping, Cum Swallowing, Fingering Photos: Pixelio: Damm, Pipping
Cum shots don’t always end up on someone’s face. It's also hot as fuck to aim for an open mouth, and watch the sperm drip down from the receiver's sensuous lips. Lots of people like it when cum is ejaculated onto other body parts. Where it can then be licked up or massaged sensually into the skin. Everyone has a different preference: some like it on their breasts, hands, ass, feet or abdomen. But the list doesn't end there! At orgies or sex parties there's often the role of a cum slut or sperm bitch (not the most PC term but that’s what it is). This person receives all the ejaculated cum at the party and is usually followed up with a golden shower. Snowballing Snowballing is holding the sperm in your mouth after a blowjob (no swallowing) and then passing it (with a sperm filled kiss!) back to your partner or on to someone else if there's more than just the two of you. Get creative! If you like sperm and can’t stand to see it wasted on sheets and upholstery (or wherever else it could end up) then sperm play is definitely for you... Looking for more sperm filled adventures? Then read on: Gangbang, Cum Swallowing, Squirting
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