Fetish & Kink

Fetish & Kink

Goths are a sub-culture that often get written off by 'normal' people. What a lot of people miss out on is a great depth, complexity and beauty in this strange dark world. Goths are usually seen in black clothing. The range of styles depends on their fancy: Victorian and metal are the two most typical but there are many others. Most of them wear heavy dark eyeliner and whiten their faces to mirror their obsessions with the morbid occult. Accessories include crucifixes and skull jewelry and occasionally candles. Goth culture has a strong musical side- genres include dark wave, new wave, heavy metal and certain types of electronic music. There can also be a strong BDSM element to their look. Leather, latex, costumes, whips and chains can be integrated into a Gothic persona or also for kinky sexual play. Caught your interest? You might also like: BDSM, Corsets, Leather
Aside from being a KISS song- Sweet pain refers to a more BDSM style of love making. The pleasure you get when someone spanks you while fucking you doggie style for starters. There are endless examples one can find. Just have a rummage through the kinkier members here on Fuck.com to get a better perspective. This isn’t your plain old vanilla sex and should be done with full consent of all parties involved. Some people find bruising and scratch marks a sexy reminder of the fun they had the night before. Many times this includes melting hot wax on your lover’s bare skin, whips and various other toys. It’s always advisable to warm up first and not go straight into hard play. A bit of talking before to make sure everyone is in agreement, role play with dominance and submission is a common scenario. An infinite supply of costumes and toys are available online or in sex shops to create any fantasy. Consent is sexy, check out some other ways of pushing the limits: BDSM, Bondage, Spanking, Wax Play
A fairly recent invention as far as textiles are concerned, but a sexy one at that! It’s slick and slippery. And makes the body do fucking fantastic things. The shapes it highlights as it hugs breasts, hips, butts and legs. Many people find they get turned on by the way it feels against their skin. They enjoy rubbing themselves or others while wearing latex costumes or lingerie. Masturbating or using a strong vibrator over the latex creates its own exciting sensations. Like many sensation based things, there are fetishists for latex as well. Costumes and toys range from simple lingerie to entire body suits with face masks. Latex is also part of another popular trend: the wet look. Shiny clothing that looks wet, hugging the body like a wet T-shirt contest, what’s not to love? (Unless of course you have an allergy, then check out PVC or rubber as an alternative.) More clothing to tickle your fancy: Uniforms, Latex Fetish, Leather, PVC Fetish
Alphabet soup time! B: bondage- physically or psychologically restricting movements of another. D: domination- having power or control over another. S: sadism- finding pleasure in causing pain to another. M: masochism- getting pleasure from receiving pain from another. Put it all together and what’ve you got? BDSM: a subculture shrouded in misconceptions. Your mind just probably flashed to latex catsuits and dungeons. Or CEOs being dominated by women with whips wearing unbelievably high stilettos. The BDSM world is unique in the fact it’s the leader in consent culture. Meaning it is psychologically speaking, a very healthy community. Everything done between partners is consensual and discussed beforehand whilst sober. You hear people talk a lot about ‘safe words’ and that’s where it comes from. Someone screaming ‘No! Please stop!’ can be a major turn on for some people, so when you hear ‘Reindeer!’ you know it’s time to immediately stop and check in. The intensity in BDSM relationship is based on handing over your trust to another person knowing that trust will not be broken. Everyone is equal in this world. A Bottom is in just as much control as the Top and vice versa. Pain is a natural fantasy most people have and when it’s discussed and consensual, exchanges can be incredible. But if the pain is a one-sided desire perhaps a bit of therapy is in order to discover where this want came from. For people unfamiliar with the BDSM world please don’t read or watch 50 Shades and think it’s a how-to-guide. Perhaps a how-to-NOT. If this world is interesting or exciting to you- get on some forums, check out your local kink clubs or munches and explore this often misunderstood world. Want to learn more about how to take a beating? Submission, Domination, Sadomasochism
Leather has a complex history. It's known for its many roles throughout history: the taming of the Wild Wild West, its contribution to luxury furniture and automobiles and for being a mark of quality in many everyday items like handbags and jackets. Leather is the chemically treated hide of an animal, usually cows, goats, pigs or crocodiles. But leather is its own entity in the BDSM world. Perhaps best known for being fetishized in gay culture, but it's used and sometimes worshipped by practitioners of every kind of BDSM. There are whole clubs and bars dedicated to leather culture- often looking similar to biker culture from a distance. While the outfits might overlap, the concept is pretty different. Everyone likes the feel, the intense scent, and the aire of authority. They are very likely to be either gay-oriented or at least gay-inclusive. More on different sub-cultures: Bizarre, Latex/PVC , Sadmasochism
Exhibitionism refers to a strong desire to put one’s genitals on display. Exhibitionists get sexual pleasure from being seen naked or engaging in sexual acts. Naked saunas and nude beaches are popular around the world, and other platforms for exhibitionism are found on social media. People have the unquestionable right to consent to their involvement in any type of sexual activity, also including someone masturbating while looking at them, or seeing anyone naked or engaged in any sexual act. Tricking or forcing people into these situations means that their rights to safety and dignity have been violated, as the act is not consensual. This is why spaces exist where people know that nudity and sex are going to happen in front of everyone, and they are more likely to be interested in watching or participating if they go there.
Bukkake is an orgie in which several men masturbate and ejaculate, one after the other or all at the same time, onto one person in the middle. The practice apparently started in Japan where the name bukkake comes from a noodle dish with sauce poured all over it. Many men imagine Bukkake as a form of Humiliation, and many orgy-focused Porn films will end with a bukkake round. Some people find it highly arousing to make several men cum at once. It's gratifying to see how many men you can get to orgasm. So who really has the power in this situation? Sometimes the person in the middle even decide when and where guys are allowed to come. Like messy sex? Then check out these other links: Group Sex, Masturbation, Cum Swallowing
Sadomasochism or S&M has two components: a sadist likes giving pain, and masochist likes receiving pain. This is a large part of BDSM. One partner is generally Dominant, administering pain to the other, and the submissive partner enjoys receiving the pain. This dynamic is always consensual and non-abusive, or it isn’t considered part of BDSM. S&M games can be purely psychological, but often they have physical components. One might find whips, paddles, chains, clamps, and even shackles involved in these scenes.It is easy for injury to result from this kind of intense play, so everyone involved really needs to know what they are doing ahead of time. For the Dominant or sadistic partner, sex is way hotter when they are inflicting pain on their partner, and controlling their movements and reactions; while the submissive can more fully enjoy themselves when they surrender to the commands of their partner. Got your kinky side all turned on? Keep reading: BDSM, Bondage, Spanking
Latex is made of natural rubber and is heavily used in BDSM and erotic play. There are loads of sex shops and websites that sell latex gear, from full body suits to face masks to accessories. And of course, it is the miracle material for making most condoms. One thing you might not know is that certain kinds of lube actually destroy latex and break down its chemical structure- rendering most types of condoms ineffective. That means you'll want to check any lube or lotion that you plan to use around the genital area before or during sex and make sure it is clearly marked as "water-based." Generally, anything you buy made from latex needs a lot of care. Any clothes or toys should be washed with water-based soaps after use and then rubbed dry with talcum powder or a special silicon oil. For more about the slippery and the sensual, read on: BDSM, Latex/PVC, PVC Fetish, Spandex
Dominance is a component of BDSM where one partner is psychologically or physically in charge of the other while the second partner is submissive. Both have agreed beforehand what is acceptable and how far things can go by choosing a safe word. Both partners have equal say before and after that, or sometimes it's the submissive partner who outlines what they would like to have happen. . Anyone engaging in Dominant play needs to have a clear understanding of consent, responsibility and human anatomy. A poorly placed slap or hair pull at the wrong angle land someone with serious head or neck injuries, which would set the relationship way back in terms of trust. There needs to be a lot of trust and communication build up before, during and after such encounters. We recommend you to seek advice from experienced members of your local BDSM community. If you're interested in Dominance, also have a look at: Sadomasochism, Spanking, BDSM
Female domination, or Femdom, is when a woman is dominant during BDSM play. This isn't necessarily related to sexual orientation, as both straight and same-sex relationships can have Tops and Bottoms. Sometimes people implement this power dynamic in their lives 24/7, but much more often, the power play is limited to the bedroom. Often the woman in charge has a strong and confident personality, but a man can also enjoy being submissive in bed precisely because he is excessively in control in daily life. Like any part of BDSM, this needs to happen on a truly consensual basis, which means that boundaries are negotiated beforehand, a safe word is chosen. Both parties obviously must have a lot of trust in each other. FemDom might not play a part in every sexual encounter between people, rather the Mistress might emerge only in some sessions. If Femdom sounds interesting to you, read more: Bondage, Submission, Domination, Sweet Pain
Rubber duckie you’re the one. Has a completely different context when you say this to a rubber fetishist. Rubber has a unique feel when you touch it so imagine what it feels like to wear an entire costume made of rubber. Feeling rubber on places of your body normally untouched by most things. We mentioned clothing made of rubber: pants, corsets, lingerie. But there are other options. For those a bit more kinky, there are also rubber restraints. Instead of tying up your rubber lover with rope, you can use rubber ties or cuffs and collars. The touch of rubber goes even further with whips and crops. Spanking, using rubber toys has a different feel from traditionally wooden or rope instruments. And you can make a lot of these toys and costumes yourself from innertubes. Finally that old stash of bike tires has a use! The texture and the feel of rubber got you wanting more? Check out: Latex Fetish, PVC Fetish, Balloon Fetish
Does the fact when it rains everyone gets out their wellies and raincoats get you all excited? Aside from keeping you dry when you’re jumping in puddles PVC has a fetish following as well. Much like rubber and latex. The differences being how the material looks and feels. PVC is a bit stiffer than latex, but it’s also shiny. Whereas rubber is usually matte and not as breathable. Enter PVC the happy middle ground. A lot of your favorite superheros and supervillains are wearing this sexy, sleek material. And if you’re a bit more kinky, probably your Dom/Domme is wearing it too. Not only does the wearer look super slick, but they feel it too. When you run your hands over the material everyone gets a nice sensation. There’s plenty of place to get your hand on this shiny and seductive material, we suggest checking with the companies about their production methods since it can be harmful to the environment. We don’t want our kinks killing the planet! But then again, maybe this will save the planet- recycle your used plastics into kinky clothing! Other kinky fetishes and sensations for your body here: BDSM, Rubber, Women's Lingerie, Sex Toys
The legs tend to get attention from both genders. Both men and women have shown a greater attraction to longer legs in studies, which has spawned all kinds of fashion innovations to accentuate and elongate the legs. In previous centuries, wealthy men commonly wore shoes with raised heels. Nowadays, everything from Spanx leggings and tights to seamed stockings and sparkly pantyhose are available to accentuate the legs. Too give an illusion of longer legs there are also high heels and tall boots as go-to tools. One pernicious myth that has emerged in recent digital trends is the "thigh gap", which is the fetishization of extremely thin thighs. Despite the claims of body-shaming and pro-anorexia sites, a gap at the top of the thighs is entirely determined by the shape of the hips, and has nothing to do with diet or fitness. More on the parts we use to lure one another in: Eyes, Feet, Butts
The term submissive refers to someone who likes to be dominated or controlled by their sexual partner. They voluntarily give up mental and sometimes physical control over their body in order to please their partner. This doesn’t mean that there aren’t limits. Submissives choose when to submit and to whom, and they decide how much control they want to give up. There should always be a safe word in case they get uncomfortable. There is such a thing as a 24/7 D/s relationship, meaning the partners stay in these roles all the time. Usually however, the role play is confined to actual sex. This means that both partners go into the relationship having a full say in what happens, and neither is disrespected. In fact, sometimes it’s the person who is naturally more domineering in daily life who most likes to be dominated to get sexual release. Ready to get down on your knees and beg for more? BDSM, Domination, Bondage, Spanking
You knew that Spandex was excellent for firming ladies' buttocks and giving athletes cameltoe, but did you know some people get turned on by it? There's actually a whole subset of the BDSM world dedicated to spandex fetishists. These folks may have a whole bodysuit made from the smooth, stretchy material, or may like wearing just certain garments that invite caressing and stroking. In either case, the genitals are probably getting special treatment, either through a strategic hole in the body suit, or by being snugly swaddeled in this modern fabric. If Spandex rubs you the right way, read on: Bizarre, Latex Fetish, PVC Fetish
A stocking fetish might be seen as something men have- a longing desire for the long, lean, lacy legs of women. But women can get off on their silky soft leg wear as well. Soft nylon, suspender stockings, Lycra lingerie and intricate designs can all make the tight covering of the leg a sensual experience. It used to be that stockings were custom-made to order, until they began being mass-produced in the 1960s. While more convenient the art of custom stocking making has been lost. But period dress shops and high-end sex shops still sell creative designs with different themes. Men sometimes enjoy wearing these as well, and lucky for them stockings come in a variety of sizes.
On "N-Day", 1935, nylon leg coverings debuted into shops. They cost an exorbitant $250 (and during the Great Depression!), but still sold a historic 4,000 pairs the first day. Those that couldn't afford the coveted look took to staining their legs with coffee grounds and drawing that sexy back seam on with brown eyeliner. In 1941, nylon was still outrageously expensive, but it had been recognized by the military as a highly tear-resistant material. After an unprecedented fundraising campaign in which thousands of women sacrificed their beloved stockings. The material collected was very useful in Pearl Harbor. In 1955, technology for the production of stretchy pantyhose was developed, rendering the erotic back seam unnecessary. Since 1965, tights have been a popular choice for the mass markets. They fit well and are also sensuous, but are far more wearable than their sheer nylon sisters. In the world of sex shops and kink gear, however, you will find all of the most artistic versions. Including waterproof versions for those who like watersports. More on the lusciousness of our legs here: Women's Lingerie, Sock Fetish, Footwear
Some people would happily lick away all day at sweaty, smelly feet, while others find the idea of even kissing a clean foot revolting. Many fetishists find it highly erotic to look at fettered feet, to tickle or to suck them. Others like to 'abuse' them. For every part of the foot, be it callouses, smells or any other imaginable thing, there are fetishists. Some enjoy the entire foot, while others focus on the toes, balls, color, texture, size or shape. Playing footsie is a well known way to hide physical contact between people in order to flirt so no one else can see. For example under the table at a restaurant, or in hot tubs. This discrete act can lead to some saucy adventures later on. When your feet stray upwards to your partner's genitals, it’s called a footjob. Looking for more kinks and fetishes? Hop on over to: Nylon Fetish, Sock Fetish, Women's Lingerie
Bondage means all kinds of sexual games that are played with ropes, cuffs or other types of restraints. Your partner’s freedom of movement is restricted either at the hands or feet, or both. In BDSM play, bondage might be integrated into role-play scenarios. One variation is to tie restraints or even clips or weights to your partner’s genitals. This is to provide sensations, but often times the appeal is aesthetic, too. BDSM, after all, involves not only enjoying giving and receiving harsh treatment, but also of seeing one’s handiwork as one takes control. Bondage can also be psychological too. Demanding that your partner doesn’t move their hands or open their eyes can also be a massive turn on. Get creative! Here re some other links that might interest you: BDSM Bondage, Hard BDSM, Roleplay
Bondage is perhaps the most accessible part of BDSM, since everyone pretty much gets how to do it. But keep in mind it also has a pretty huge learning curve. You need to be careful when restricting movement so that you don't cause injury. You'd be surprised how far experts can take it! You might see one partner in handcuffs, hogtied and strapped to an examination table. Or perhaps hung in a swing. The Top may use a straightjacket, a chastity belt, or even a spreader (St. Andrew's Cross). The restrictions are usually part of both foreplay and fucking, although in extreme scenes the orgasms might be caused by sex toys or other devices. If you are more the vanilla type, you might play around with scarves, shawls, tights or belts to spice things up just a tad. Here are some other links that might interest you: Blindfolds, Roleplay Handcuffs, BDSM
A diaper fetish, also known as diaper play or baby play, is a fetish wherein one partner not only dresses in diapers, but usually also behaves and is treated like a baby. There is another group of fetishists who are simply into wearing diapers and get off by that alone. But most of the time this is a role-play fetish. In the typical role play the "mother" will powder, cream and change the "baby", swaddle and hold them, even deal with their excrement (which may be a fetish for some people in and of itself). Diaper play specifically addresses the need that we all have to be protected, given affection, and taken care of even when we feel helpless. This doesn't necessarily have to take a sexual form, but it can be a release by creating a safe and happy experience. More creative roleplay ideas here: Bizarre, Role Play, Sex Toys
The amount of pain depends on the quality of the candles and the height the wax is dropped from. The sensation could be a nice lukewarm, or a searing hot. Smaller candles and wax falling from higher up tend to be less hot. The wax pools a bit, and is then spilled with care onto the willing victim. Sex shops often sell candles that have a lower melting point for less risk of burning. The idea is to get a nice redness with a little puff in the skin, but not to injure anyone. As wax pools and cools, a layer will be formed over the skin. A whip or a switch might be just perfect to snap that apart. For any bears among us, though, it might be wise to put a layer of plastic between your body hair and that wax, unless you are into a really, really, really painful finish! For more hot ways to spice it up, check out: Blindfolds, BDSM, Bondage
Breath play is a staple of BDSM play, but choking has become more and more common in recent years, even in vanilla sex. There are biological reasons for this kind of play, cutting off some of the oxygen going to the brain intensifies pleasure, but this activity is very dangerous for obvious reasons. Usually the dominating partner restricts the airflow of the submissive partner, but this should only be done when there is a high level of trust in the relationship. The dominating partner should also have specific knowledge of any biological variables involved. There are different techniques for restricting the breath, such as covering the mouth with a hand, face sitting and toys such as tubes or ropes. Some people auto-asphyxiate while masturbating- same rule applies: know your shit and have supervised experience before fucking with your breathing, since things can go very, very wrong, very, very quickly. More about breath play here: BDSM, Bizarre, Submission, Domination
The word 'bizarre' is bizarre. What is it exactly? We can't really be sure because what's bizarre for one person is normal for someone else. It's all relative. In terms of sexual context (because hello, this is Fuck.com) the dick-tionary defines bizarre as a deviant sexual behavior. For example: certain types of clothing, accessories or toys could be considered bizarre. While sometimes this can mean particular tendencies, traditions or fetishes. Bizarre is often confused or equated with being kinky or perverted. Of course being kinky is not perverted either. Talking about sexuality, almost everything is allowed, as long as everyone has given their consent. When sexual acts take place forcefully or without consent then we're stepping into the realm of perversion. Interested in other 'bizarre' sexual tendencies? Keep reading: Bondage, Uniforms, Role Play
Spanking is the most widely used form of sexual punishment. It's a form of BDSM, although it is practiced by a lot of people who don’t know anything about the BDSM world. The delight comes from slapping or hitting the ass, breasts, nipples or genitals of the submissive partner, either with the hand or with instruments ranging from whips and paddles to belts or kitchen utensils. The thing about sexy spanking is, it’s not meant to hurt or terrify anyone! Which means you need to know what you’re doing before you start spanking away carelessly. If using rods, whips or canes, you should first learn correct techniques so that you don’t cause deep bruising, break the skin, or create lasting nerve damage. There are some areas of the body that shouldn’t be hit, and there are techniques for spanking that give the most bang with the least break. If you found this interesting, also check out: BDSM, Domination, Sweet Pain
Watersports is an umbrella term for all sexual things involving urine. A golden shower pours like a shower over the body or maybe only certain parts - like the face, chest, ass, cock or pussy. Other pee fetishists love to be filled with urine during or after sex, sometimes with a piss enema. Whether you've just pissed yourself or it's a stranger in a public restroom, these can all be turns on for the right person. You never know what will get you off until you try it. Maybe this sounds a bit strange to you, or maybe you can't wait to jerk off after reading this. Keep an open mind about all fetishes, you might just discover that you love it! If you're curious, try in the shower or bathtub. If you're interested in this, also check out: Bizarre, Sex in the Shower, Wet Clothes
Bondage has a lot of different aspects. Depends on what you’re into. You’ve probably read through the other BDSM and bondage preferences by now. Hard BDSM is for experienced kinksters only. And it’s not always about fucking. BDSM has a lot of benefits outside of just having kinky sex. Hard BDSM is a careful practice, often involving an assortment of devices and instruments according to your particular kink or fetish. It can also be psychological too. The most important thing you can learn from BDSM is SSC. Safe, sane and consensual. This means you discuss what you’re doing BEFORE you do it. What hard no-gos are, safewords and very importantly aftercare. You can’t just strap someone up on a St. Andrew’s Cross, beat the fuck out of them and then walk away. For those kinky and daring enough to enter this dungeon, play hard, love hard, be safe hard. It’s about pleasure and sweet pain. If you liked this topic also have a look at: BDSM Bondage, BDSM, Soft Bondage
Scat, or Coprophilia is gaining sexual gratification from playing with shit. It has many names, but scat, caviar, and chocolate are among the most commonly used. Health Risks Most people into caviar get off on watching someone take a dump, but another common fix is suppressing bowel movements. Control is sexy and there are many different forms of control. Sometimes caviar makes the jump into playing with it- using it as lubrication for gentle massaging or evolving into consuming it, also known as coprophagia. If certain considerations are not taken, this can be a major physical risk. Human excrement is loaded with bacteria and other things you don't want to be eating again. So do your research before taking a bite out that 'chocolate'. Looking for more hot stuff to do with your ass? Read on: Ass Play, Odors, Butts, Diaper Fetish
Abstinence means NO fucking, NO penetrative sex, NO intercourse. Generally referring to refraining from sex or alcohol, but it can have other contexts as well. Since we’re Fuck.com, we’ll obviously be talking about fucking, or in this case NOT fucking. This doesn’t mean people who are abstinent don’t do other things. We’ve all heard of getting to third base, but what about second and first? They can be sexy too. Sometimes what you don’t get is more fun than actually getting it. Reasons vary from religious and other personal commitments to fear of contracting STIs or getting pregnant. Some people confuse this with asexuality which is different. Most people who choose to be abstinent are sexual; they just refrain from penetrative sex until a certain time. Whereas asexual people don’t have sex because they aren’t interested in sexual actions at all. More ways to keep your hands to yourself: Vanilla, Kissing, Masturbation, Massage
It's easy to underestimate the role of smell in sexual attraction. But just go on a first date with a someone who views deodorant as optional. Or, arguably worse - who has bathed in cologne just before. You’ll note how quickly those nether regions shrivel up. The role of pheromones is a scientifically and evolutionarily important one. They affect our perception of someone on a subconscious level. This is where we get those animal instincts from and occasionally ‘go a bit feral’. Body odors also have their own groups of fetishists. Anything from used socks and underwear to smelly gym T-shirts or jockstraps (insert link from afraid to ask forum). Before you judge remember when your sweetheart is away and you wear their unwashed band T-Shirt the entire time they are gone. See, pheromones, fetishes and fucking, they come together in the end. All that aside, odor can also be a major turn off when it’s in the wrong places at the wrong times. Meaning, get clean before you get dirty.: brush your teeth, wash or towelette typically stinky areas, use talcum powder for your particularly sweaty bits. So keep your nose open, you never know who might draw your fancy! More on those nooks and crannies you're carrying around here: Armpit Sex, Facesitting, Feet
It might seem like people are coming up with new fetishes all the time, but it's probably more likely that the internet has made it easier for them to be brought to our finger tips. Smoking fetishism has surely been around at least for decades, but you might just be hearing about it now. This is sexual pleasure connected to the smoking of cigars, cigarettes, pipes or shishas. For some people, just watching someone consume tobacco turns them on, and smoking during intercourse really lights their fire. Smoking, after all, has always stood for being daring and rebellious, and maybe more today than ever, is seen as "dirty". So it seems almost natural that it would be a welcome sight when people are doing the nasty. Want to see what else can light your fire? Read more here: Blindfolds, Erotic Art, Lips, Female Domination
Smells have a lot to do with sex appeal. Whether it’s Ode d’You after a gym session or some wacky spray your mom got you when you were a teenager they all have an affect. People have natural pheromones that attract or repel each other for procreation. As humans evolved and AXE body was invented they’ve been drowning themselves in the stuff. Trying to cover up nature’s work. Not that there’s anything wrong with that, because sometimes nature can be pretty stinky. Egyptians used to put scented wax cones on their heads and let it melt down their hair (which were usually wigs). A large chunk of Europe’s history believed bathing was unhealthy so, yea fragrances were kind of necessary if you didn’t want to suffocate to death. That being said a liberal amount of perfume or cologne can give some lasting impressions on a first date. It can be the difference between passing out from lack of oxygen to ‘Hey, that’s really nice. I would cuddle up and possibly fuck that.’ So make your choices wisely Fuck.com buddies! Other smelly treats: Odors, Aphrodisiacs, Foot Fetish
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