Sexual Preferences

Foreplay & OralShow all in this category

Foreplay is all the fun stuff that happens before fucking. Everybody involved should be getting more and more turned on as you caress, squeeze, kiss, rub and undress one another. Studies (not sure we needed a study for that, but okay) have shown that men and women often have very different ideas of what foreplay is and its importance. While for women longer foreplay is much more important, men sometimes have little imagination about what the fuck they should be doing. This can be a pretty big barrier to a satisfying straight relationship. A woman’s pleasure is greatly intensified when her partner pays attention and puts thought into the fun outside the thrust. With couples where one partner has a tendency to rush things; it's good to be intentional about planning enough time for the foreplay to lead up slowly to intercourse. This requires cooperation and communication, but the payoff is huge. A bit clueless as to what else is involved in foreplay? Here are some sexy ideas: Blindfolds, Vanilla, Handjobs, Striptease
Kissing is universally human, but it carries many different variants and meanings! Europeans kiss on the cheeks, sometimes it's once, sometimes five times. The rules are complicated, so if you're new, ask before faces start colliding. When it comes to planting one on the lips, there are even more variations. There are parent-child smacks, nervous teenage brushes, and then there's that guy you thought was cute until he began suctioning off half your face with his octopus tentacle otherwise known as his face. But once you get the basics down, don't neglect this tender art during your fornicating. Kissing is magically intimate, builds up suspense, and resolves anxieties. Make it a part of your routine, even if you're bending someone over the bathroom sink or giving head in the back of the car. Kisses open doors, mend fences, and punctuate an encounter nicely. Or roughly, however you prefer. More things to do with your mouth here: Vanilla, Oral Sex, Biting, Foreplay
Most of us like dirty talk. Whether it’s sweet suggestions whispered in the ear or nasty words spat out while our hair is being pulled, a little verbal theatrics gets most people going. For those that are warming up for some BDSM play, this is often pretty aggressive and might involve insulting or belittling someone, claiming not to be interested in them, or even mocking their sexual attractiveness. For couples who regular engage in aggressive or BDSM sex, this kind of “hard” dirty talk might be a frequent part of their relationship. Certainly, those who are involved with porn, phone sex or cam sex are making the most of the power of words.

Sexy Body Art & ModificationShow all in this category

They say if you stare into a stranger’s eyes for four minutes it improves your connection and intimacy with them. The windows to the soul, if you’re into that sort of thing. There’s no denying some good ol’ fashioned eye contact does wonders for connecting with people. Today everyone is hunched over their smartphones and bumping into each other on the sidewalks. They’re missing the beauty of looking someone in the eye. Test it out. Try having sex while looking into your partner’s eyes the whole time. Did you come faster and harder? How did you feel? Don’t neglect these little beauties. They have a lot of power over the mind and body. Some people claim to be able to orgasm just by thinking about something. Or couple’s tantric meditation practices often focus on steady and intense eye contact before even touching each other. How can something so obvious be forgotten? Take a closer look into your partner’s eye next time you’re fucking and see the difference it makes! Looking for more ways to make things more intense in the bedroom? Vanilla, Erotic Art, Massage, Women's Lingerie
The lips might be the most underrated part of your body. Think about it, they are a highly erogenous zone that you wear on your face! Lips have a high concentration of nerve endings, making them highly sensitive and easily stimulated. Although we use them to talk and eat, they are also extremely important in most of our sexual activities as well. Think of how much power and excitement is created in the simple act of kissing. It is the doorway to most erotic encounters, and a great measure of your chemistry with a lover. Not only poets and songwriters have swooned over lips- their color, their texture, their shape. Evolution has also dictated that they be more attractive to us when swollen and flushed after sexual escapades. This is the origin of red lipstick: creating that sensual glow to show us at the peak of our beauty. More sexy body parts to get your juices flowing: Eyes, Legs, Butts, Tits
Blonde, brunette or ginger? What’s your preference? Does it matter to you? A lot of people have a ‘thing’ for brunettes or ‘crazy red-heads’. Do blondes really have more fun? What about black hair, grey hair? Or the more outstanding colors like blue, green, orange or magenta? What about long, short or medium? It’s not just the color that grabs your fancy, it’s also the length and shape. Do you like the ‘I just woke up on the wrong side of the bed’ look? Or perhaps the more greased look? The way it’s worn: straight and down, up in a pony-tail or cutesy pigtails. Maybe you like it shaved into intricate designs? Or dreadlocks or no hair at all! There are infinite options when it comes to the hair on your head (no your other head you perv). But what it really comes down to is self-confidence and being happy with the way you look. Because you’re fucking beautiful with whatever hair (or no) that you have! Looking for other hairy situations? Take a peek down under: Photography, Pubic Hair, Body Hair

Lingerie & Kinky Outfits Show all in this category

Lingerie, as opposed to just plain old underwear, is meant to entice. To make the wearer feel sexy and to make the onlooker all hot and bothered. It’s functionality is arguably not so practical but it sure does look hot! Lingerie is most often used as an act of foreplay and is heavily used in different role play scenarios. Textiles, colors and shapes have endless possibilities in the world of lingerie. It depends on the look the wearer is going for. The most widely known shape changing undergarment is of course the corset. Colors available are more vast than the rainbow and also can have a psychological effect on both the wearer and observer. Common textiles for lingerie include silk, cotton, spandex, nylon and polyester. The feel of lingerie is important, does the wearer want to invite touching and feeling or do they only want to encourage bulging, ahem, eyes and excitement. As with many fun and sexy items, lingerie isn’t just for women. Many men also enjoy wearing sexy underwear. In the gay community particularly there is a wide range of possibilities: from leather and jock straps to hot pants and more. Need an excuse to get all dressed up and flash your stuff around town? Read on: Risqué Dressing, Nylon, Sock Fetish

Lifestyles & RelationshipsShow all in this category

We're all familiar with the idea of nude beaches - some people love them, others recoil in disgust. But did you know that nudism is a lifestyle choice for some people? There are whole manifestos on the internet about how living naked is a solution to a lot of our modern woes. Often, people also partake in lifestyle movements like radical honesty or spiritual meditation. They are seeking to live a freer, more natural, and joyful life without all the oppression that society considers 'normal'. Everybody likes seeing their partner naked, so nudism isn't really a fetish in and of itself, but of course all kinds of fetishes are expressed in nudist settings! You'll also find quite a few porn studios have used nudist beaches or colonies as settings for their erotic storylines. Next time you see a porn set on a nudist beach or colony let your imagine run wild. Did you find this interesting? Then also have a look at: Free Love, Polyamory, Swinging
One hot way to spice up a sexual relationship is to go out in public dressed up in some risqué, or provocative, clothing. Your taste might be as simple as a mini-skirt that allows your ass cheeks to peek out while you're going up the stairs, or leather pants that show off your package. You might want to take it up a notch and wear some chains or a butt plug that would show if one was to look. Maybe some lingerie that reveals more than it conceals. Maybe you're the librarian type by day, but could slide into some fishnets and fuck-me heels by night? Maybe you're a CEO by day, but want to wear a dog collar to the club and follow someone else's commands for a change? Need some more ideas for a special night on the town? Check these out: Exhibitionism, Dirty Talk , Voyuerism
Voyeurism is a term that comes from the French verb “voir”, meaning “to see”. Voyeurs are people who get turned on by seeing others undress or have sex. Often, the pleasure is more intense if the watching is done in secret. Voyeurs of course enjoy nude beaches, saunas and sex clubs, since there are plenty of people baring it all and doing the nasty. Some people prefer to keep their anonymity while watching by using telescopes, binoculars and the like, but this is only legal if done with consenting and probably exhibitionist partners. Since it can be tricky to get full gratification as a voyeur without violating someone’s privacy, the internet has come to the rescue. There are tons of sites that cater to this preference, by various means, some more ethical than others! Exhibitionism, Striptease, Wet Clothes

Sex Acts & PositionsShow all in this category

You've probably been giggling about the number 69 since you were in middle school. But have you tried it? Have you ever thought that it might be just what your relationship needs to deal with that thorny problem of not having simultaneous orgasms. One beautiful thing about 69ing is that it's the great equalizer. Men and women can do it, men and men, women and women, and anyone else. It also means that both people get to "give" and "receive", and at the same time. Many people think of 69 as foreplay only, but if you really put your heart into it and are willing to break a sweat, you might find it offers intense and simultaneous orgasms that can bring you closer than ever to your partner! Ready to get your bedroom acrobatics on? Read on for more ideas: Facesitting, Handjobs Foto Pixelio Wagschal
Anal sex - pretty self explanatory right? The highlight of the action is your extremely erogenous asshole. It's chalk full with thousands of nerve endings in the inner and outer sphincter. Passive is usually a good way to get started with anal action. If you're new to exploring the asshole or this is settled territory, passive can be another option for foreplay. Basically anything short of penetration is considered passive- stroking, caressing, kissing all passive actions. Stepping it up into active means getting out the lube, a strap-on, other toys or a dick (depending on your preferences and anatomy of course) and having penetrative sex. Poppin' the cherry. Deflowering. Loosing your virginity. Does this also apply to your ass? No one can really agree. Debates between sexologists, religious leaders and in general pretty much everyone, are ongoing and probably always will be. Looking for more hot tips for things to do with your sexy ass? Ass Play, Butts, Threesomes

Sex ToysShow all in this category

Sex toys are any object or machine that contributes to sexual stimulation and pleasure. So, basically, this could be pretty much anything. Toys can be used by a single person, or by more. They increase our physical capabilities, but also provide unfamiliar sensations that make things more interesting. Some of the most popular toys include vibrators, dildos, cock rings, butt plugs, the Fleshlight and sex dolls. More and more toys these days have battery power which can add variety in sensation and intensity. There've been toys all through human history for naughty adults, but surely the pinnacle of all this lusty innovation is the Fucking Machine itself, which is exactly what it sounds like. You strap in, and it fucks you. And btw, everyone else is getting off on the videos online. Humans, we are so creative. Check out more fucking things you can do alone or with others: Masturbation, Porn, Phone Sex
The dildo is pretty much the oldest sex toy in the world. Design is usually based on the phallus, but they come in an endless variety of shapes, sizes, colors and materials. Dildos are used by all genders and sexual orientations. The first “modern” dildos came onto the market in the 1940s. They were made of rubber and had a metal spring inside in order to give it strength. Later on PVC was used because of its softer quality. Excavations of a site in Ulm, Germany dating back to 30,000 years old have found phallus-shaped artifacts ranging in size of around 20cm. Further evidence is suggested from a figure on a vase holding a dildo, dating back to 490 BC. Dildos have become more socially acceptable as their popularity grows. Except in Alabama in the USA, where they are strictly prohibited! More on getting publicly freaky here: Sex Toys, Anal Toys, Masturbation Text by Nordseebär

Sexual Fantasies & Erotic Role PlayShow all in this category

Phone sex originated in an age when phones were stationary and had cords attached to them, you know, totally pre-historic! Part of the appeal of phone sex then, was that there was no visual component. The caller enjoyed the tones of the voice, the personality of the person on the other end, and the fantasies sparked by the dirty talk hat was exchanged. Phone sex has occurred between partners who were separated by distance, but it has also been a business for decades. Numbers with special per-minute rates were set up, staffed by women of all types, and callers were pleasured for money. What's interesting is that while phone sex between partners is sex, it also plays a part in their relationship, and can be a tool for maintaining or even increasing intimacy.
Cybersex is the swapping of digital fluids- sexy thoughts and feelings using a chat messenger or webcams. Sometimes people have "cam to cam" sex, or get themselves off at the same time while chatting to bring a real side to the fantasy of chat. Cybersex has existed since the 90s, when hanging out in chat rooms became the 'in thing' to do. At first people were swapping images and messages via email, but that was painfully slow compared to what became possible with instant messenger. Not only were flirting and sex, instant and in full color, but also anonymous and felt like they were happening in a different world. There are mad scientists out there trying to develop virtual reality tools in the form of helmets, gloves and even suits especially made for cybersex. There are already vibrators you can plug into your USB, so really anything is possible!
Chat rooms started out as strings of black and white text on screens. The irritating and slow dial up process- hoping that your house mates (or worse your mom and dad) didn’t pick up the phone while you were in the middle of a juicy dialog. There were no pictures, so you had to wait for a picture to come in the mail. Then there were movies like Strangeland to scare the shit out of you and remind you there are creepy fuckers out there in the internet land. But it wasn’t all bad. People had to be more creative in describing what they wanted. Today, there are still traditional chat rooms, inevitably littered with emoticons, but still the art of writing has not been totally lost to the video chat. Sexting also calls for a certain skill with the digital pen. A perfect way to keep in touch with long distant lovers or a cheeky distraction at work. Looking for more ways words are sexy? Erotic Fiction, Phone Sex, Cyber Sex .

Places to have SexShow all in this category

Fucking outside, it’s fucking awesome! There are so many places to do it. The thrill of not getting caught or being caught, depending on what gets you off. Sex is great in the bedroom, on the washing machine, on the kitchen table in the shower, wherever. But OUTSIDE! Think big or small. Maybe you’re at the beach and want a quickie under the pier or between the umbrella stands. You’re on a road trip and have been driving for hours and can’t keep your hands off each other, pull over and get some action! (And yes please pull over and stop somewhere!) Or maybe you test your skills of stealth and see what you can get away with at a theme park. Paintballing gets the adrenaline pumping but if you’re suddenly killed it’s not fun to wait for the game to finish all alone! And of course the summer festival circuit! Catch all the best music and sexy action under the sun- Please remember to fuck responsibly and use protection ;) The possibilities are endless! So get outside and fuck already! Sex on the Beach, Parking lot Sex, Sex in Nature Photos Pixelio: Sturm, Peter
Love being in nature? Fresh air in your lungs, beautiful colors, the sound of animals. It gets you kinda hot, right? Next time you plan (or don’t plan, spontaneity is the spice of life!) a camping trip make sure you’ve got all the essentials packed. Tent, check. Sleeping bag, check. Food and cooking stuff, check. Condoms and lube, check. Sex toys and extra batteries, check. The forest is covered in romance, chances are you’ll be competing with the neighboring rabbits but that’s more fun. You have relative privacy to roam the woods naked and free. If you’re lucky you’ll find some nice patch of grass to get busy in. Or perhaps you like it a bit more rough up against a tree. Get creative Fuck.com buddies! Keep a look-out for ticks and other unwanted pests. Remember to have fucking fun! Outside not your cup of tea? Check out places around the house to get busy: Sex on a Washing Machine, Sex on a Chair, Sex in the Shower
Sex on the beach is more than just your favorite drink (admit it). It's obviously an enticing activity. As soon as you picture a beach with sand, you might be less enticed. And we hear you. Boy, do we hear you. But there are those who will not be thwarted! It's hot, there are so many glistening bodies, and you're almost naked anyway! This is where the Europeans can help out! European seas and shores are dotted with nude beaches and private resorts, and not only will you find beaches that welcome nudity (perhaps with enormous fig leaves blocking the neighbors' view of your hanging fruits) but also some that welcome impromptu sexual performances, and may even provide an audience. Whether you're a shower or a watcher, or both, you might find this type of vacation more relaxing than average! For more adult fun in the sun here: Parking Lot Sex, Exhibitionism, Nudism, Voyeurism

Fetish & KinkShow all in this category

Goths are a sub-culture that often get written off by 'normal' people. What a lot of people miss out on is a great depth, complexity and beauty in this strange dark world. Goths are usually seen in black clothing. The range of styles depends on their fancy: Victorian and metal are the two most typical but there are many others. Most of them wear heavy dark eyeliner and whiten their faces to mirror their obsessions with the morbid occult. Accessories include crucifixes and skull jewelry and occasionally candles. Goth culture has a strong musical side- genres include dark wave, new wave, heavy metal and certain types of electronic music. There can also be a strong BDSM element to their look. Leather, latex, costumes, whips and chains can be integrated into a Gothic persona or also for kinky sexual play. Caught your interest? You might also like: BDSM, Corsets, Leather
Aside from being a KISS song- Sweet pain refers to a more BDSM style of love making. The pleasure you get when someone spanks you while fucking you doggie style for starters. There are endless examples one can find. Just have a rummage through the kinkier members here on Fuck.com to get a better perspective. This isn’t your plain old vanilla sex and should be done with full consent of all parties involved. Some people find bruising and scratch marks a sexy reminder of the fun they had the night before. Many times this includes melting hot wax on your lover’s bare skin, whips and various other toys. It’s always advisable to warm up first and not go straight into hard play. A bit of talking before to make sure everyone is in agreement, role play with dominance and submission is a common scenario. An infinite supply of costumes and toys are available online or in sex shops to create any fantasy. Consent is sexy, check out some other ways of pushing the limits: BDSM, Bondage, Spanking, Wax Play
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