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Alphabet soup time! B: bondage- physically or psychologically restricting movements of another. D: domination- having power or control over another. S: sadism- finding pleasure in causing pain to another. M: masochism- getting pleasure from receiving pain from another. Put it all together and what’ve you got? BDSM: a subculture shrouded in misconceptions. Your mind just probably flashed to latex catsuits and dungeons. Or CEOs being dominated by women with whips wearing unbelievably high stilettos. The BDSM world is unique in the fact it’s the leader in consent culture. Meaning it is psychologically speaking, a very healthy community. Everything done between partners is consensual and discussed beforehand whilst sober. You hear people talk a lot about ‘safe words’ and that’s where it comes from. Someone screaming ‘No! Please stop!’ can be a major turn on for some people, so when you hear ‘Reindeer!’ you know it’s time to immediately stop and check in. The intensity in BDSM relationship is based on handing over your trust to another person knowing that trust will not be broken. Everyone is equal in this world. A Bottom is in just as much control as the Top and vice versa. Pain is a natural fantasy most people have and when it’s discussed and consensual, exchanges can be incredible. But if the pain is a one-sided desire perhaps a bit of therapy is in order to discover where this want came from. For people unfamiliar with the BDSM world please don’t read or watch 50 Shades and think it’s a how-to-guide. Perhaps a how-to-NOT. If this world is interesting or exciting to you- get on some forums, check out your local kink clubs or munches and explore this often misunderstood world. Want to learn more about how to take a beating? Submission, Domination, Sadomasochism
Erotica has been around for centuries. And for good reason: fucking is an inherent human urge and imagination comes just as naturally. Pick up a pen and the two work pretty well together. Erotic fiction has been disguised throughout history to get passed the censors. An obvious example being vampire stories. A way to let the imagination run free, erotic fiction is a healthy release for those with imaginations on the more dangerous or impossible side of sexual desires. Or just a form of sexy escapism. So don’t be afraid to bust out those romance novels on a lonely night. You can also read a loud to your partner to get things warmed up. It also serves another surprising purpose. Many therapists recommend erotic fiction to their patients. Some people find relief or satisfaction in reading it. To help with everything from sex drive to troubled relationships. Or as a form of exposure therapy to those who have undergone trauma. Looking for other ways to get creative? Vanilla, Cybersex, Masturbation
Sadomasochism or S&M has two components: a sadist likes giving pain, and masochist likes receiving pain. This is a large part of BDSM. One partner is generally Dominant, administering pain to the other, and the submissive partner enjoys receiving the pain. This dynamic is always consensual and non-abusive, or it isn’t considered part of BDSM. S&M games can be purely psychological, but often they have physical components. One might find whips, paddles, chains, clamps, and even shackles involved in these scenes.It is easy for injury to result from this kind of intense play, so everyone involved really needs to know what they are doing ahead of time. For the Dominant or sadistic partner, sex is way hotter when they are inflicting pain on their partner, and controlling their movements and reactions; while the submissive can more fully enjoy themselves when they surrender to the commands of their partner. Got your kinky side all turned on? Keep reading: BDSM, Bondage, Spanking
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