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Meeting for the first time... Where is it safe?

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Beatriz
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Ok this has been bothering me for a while now… ¬¬

 

I’ve been on a few dates with men I met online, and the first time we meet I always want it to be on neutral grounds, like a bar or a café etc.  But so often the guy tells me something like  babe, we already know what we want, so why waste any time? I'll come to your place, or you to mine”. And we’ve never even met before!  

Of course after a couple of dates (or even on the first date) when you feel like you’ve gotten to know the person a bit better it’s a different story. But to meet at home for the first time? Like do you check his ID card?? What do you do? :flushed:

 

Casual dating seems to be sooooo easy for men, but personally as a woman I’m a bit scared…

Does anyone feel the same way? How do you normally do? 

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LeBatteur
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For men it´s similar. A first date should be on neutral grounds at ervery time. That´s valid for men and women.

But you´ll have never security, if you will have had one or more dates before. There´s always a residual risk to meet the wrong choice.

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husalm956
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I don't know

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DavidSteelcart
Posted

eyyyyyyy honestly

 

dudette

 

just be yourself. it's what i do and it seems to work all well and swell

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Just go to a place where both of you can walk out if you feel like it. If a man does not understand/accept that for the first time you meet, go find someone else...

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nomi001
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I Agree . its good first we meet on open place like bar coffe shop etc talk then next time decide for date :)

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sami795
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LUN IS MY PASSION

 

 

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Rocky111
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No problem

 

William338
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On 7/7/2016 at 6:23 AM, Beatriz said:

Ok this has been bothering me for a while now… ¬¬

 

I’ve been on a few dates with men I met online, and the first time we meet I always want it to be on neutral grounds, like a bar or a café etc.  But so often the guy tells me something like  babe, we already know what we want, so why waste any time? I'll come to your place, or you to mine”. And we’ve never even met before!  

Of course after a couple of dates (or even on the first date) when you feel like you’ve gotten to know the person a bit better it’s a different story. But to meet at home for the first time? Like do you check his ID card?? What do you do? :flushed:

 

Casual dating seems to be sooooo easy for men, but personally as a woman I’m a bit scared…

Does anyone feel the same way? How do you normally do? 

well it all goes according to what you what to do if your real let us get together right now and fuck our brains out and make mad passionate love till cum like a wild woman. 

yet if there's more you must take it one day at a time the sex may be good but is that all you want to get 

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I am man I have been in places most don't dare go...I will not go to her home to Meet eye to eye for 1st time..why ??? Well who's there waiting to do you harm?? It could be the most expensive neighborhood.. nope... a coffee shop ice cream shop.a bar.... women should have a.friend to call right in front of him at the table .. safety..eye to eye not just walk up to a private home or apartment..who is inside waiting ??.. I'll meet you 1st ok then who knows..

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I agree that poeple should meet first or ever use video chat before that so they can have a idea of who there dealing with.

rex29
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Any public place is OK.

Gillani8
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I also would like to know about the safe place. Thanks!


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