Threesomes – yes please!


Many people fantasize about threesome and it is an experience you might want to try sooner or later in your life. Here we give ten rules that you should follow if you want to have a successful threesome. Those rules will make sure that everyone gets a happy ending.

 

1. Smell nice, dress nice


Just like having sex with one other person, with a threesome there will be another person around with their own scents and their look. Just because it is a threesome, do not forget about hygiene or the need to dress in a sexy manner for the other people. Treat it like a special occasion, even if it is a regular thing.

 

2. Foreplay is a must


Just because there are three of you it does not mean that you have to get down to some hard action straight away. This is not a porn film. Take the time to explore each others bodies just as you would do with a single partner.

 

3. Give equal attention


Unless you are into the idea of being cuckolded, it is a good idea to give equal attention to each person involved in the threesome. This depends on the gender of the partners involved, and their sexual preferences. You should not feel pressured into doing something that you do not want to do. However, it is too easy when someone is giving pleasure to you, to forget about the other people involved. Make sure that you are using every part of your body, your fingers, tongue and genitals to give pleasure of different types.

 

4. Don’t be squeamish


Inevitably, in a threesome, there will be two partners of the same sex. They may, or may not, have feelings for people of the same sex. However, there will inevitably be collateral damage when taking part in a threesome. If you are a man, don’t scream if you accidentally brush up against another man’s penis. If you are a woman, don’t recoil if you touch another woman’s breast. These things happen and a threesome is way more fun if all partners involved enjoy toughing and playing around with each other - within each person's personal boundaries that is.

 

5. Talk first, and after


Perhaps the most important rule of threesomes is to talk about it first. Things can be spontaneous, but it is best to talk about any preferences or kinks before you start the threesome. It can be very embarrassing when a person in a threesome asks for something or does something that is unexpected and unpleasant to one of the people involved.

 

6. Fantasy is fine


Threesomes can actually be boring if they involve vanilla sex, particularly if this is the third or forth time that you have been with the partners. It is a good idea to think about introducing fantasy into threesomes. For example, a good fantasy to bring to a threesome is that one person is the slave of the others, and has to be playfully forced into giving pleasure to the other two. Another fantasy could be that one person is the dominant party, and the other two are submissive.

 

7. Pick a venue


Threesomes need more room than sex between two people. Often, people forget about the practical sides of a threesome. Make sure that the bed, or play area, is big enough, and that you have enough condoms and lubrication for your fun.


photo by Skley via Flickr under a CC BY 2.0 license.

 


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