Dating

Fuck Valentine's Day: Why You Should Lighten the Fuck Up

In honor of the title, we've decided to post this after the holiday. Because yes indeed, some people agree FUCK Valentine's Day.  But there are

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Dating

Polyamorous Relationships: Are You In or Are You Out?

Our latest edition of Ask Abi reveals the tricky bits and compromises one must sometimes make when living 'in' vs 'out' polyamorous relationships.

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Dating

How to Write the Best First Message and Get Responses

Fed up with sending icebreaker messages and not getting responses? Discover our 8 top tips to help you write the best dating intro messages to your

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Dating

Fuck Valentine's Day: Why You Should Lighten the Fuck Up

In honor of the title, we've decided to post this after the holiday. Because yes indeed, some people agree FUCK Valentine's Day.  But there are others who fuck it gently and lovingly because they

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Polyamorous Relationships: Are You In or Are You Out?

Our latest edition of Ask Abi reveals the tricky bits and compromises one must sometimes make when living 'in' vs 'out' polyamorous relationships. What are some of the reasons people choose to remain

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How to Write the Best First Message and Get Responses

Fed up with sending icebreaker messages and not getting responses? Discover our 8 top tips to help you write the best dating intro messages to your fellow Fuck.com buddies - and get the responses you

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Top Polyamorous Dating Rules to Live By

How does polyamory work? There are a lot of ludicrous ideas whirling around out there on the internet, so we thought we'd take a moment to clear things up with some good polyamorous dating rules to

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6 Sexy Experiments to Try in 2017

It’s that time of year again. Time to promise ourselves we’ll lose 30 pounds in a month, get ripped, go vegan, jump out of a plane, quit that soul-sucking job, and all the other New Year’s

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5 Tips for How to Buy Sex Toys WITH Your Partner

The holidays are on its way, and we are about to be inundated with serious sales! The good news is – these offers include sex toys! All your favourite shops will be selling toys at seriously low

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Sexting Tips for When Adulting Gets Too Dull

We once had phone sex, then email and chat room sex, and now there are all sorts of options under the title sexting. But what is sexting? Does it simply mean sending dirty texts through your cell

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The Good, the Bad and the Not-so-Ugly of Being Solo Poly

In the mass and confusion of dating triangles, circles, squares and other various arrangements out there, a new term has sprung up: solo poly. Fuck.com has asked our infamous Abi Brown to clarify

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For the Love of a Hairy Man

How do you like your man? Smooth and shaved or do you prefer a hairy man? There's pluses to both sides. Find out why sometimes a little bit of fur can go a long way to turning you on.
For the

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Sex Stereotyping: A Halloween Reminder About Costumes

Sex stereotyping and subliminal racism is never more in your-fucking-face than at Halloween. What do people really want when they wear those kinds of costumes? What's okay and not okay? Are there

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Sexy Halloween Costumes - Yay or Nay

Halloween is just around the corner and that means it’s time to decide if you’re the Halloween version of Scrooge (like me) who doesn’t turn on the lights, buy the candy, or put on a sexy Halloween

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Ask Abi #15: My Partner Came Out Bisexual!

Dear Abi,
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, and we’re planning to move in with each other in the autumn. Over the summer, though, he’s decided to come out as bisexual.

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Ask Abi #12: Lament of the Emotionally Unavailable

Dear Abi,
I’ve had a string of somewhat disastrous relationships in which I always felt more emotionally detached from the person I was with than I should have been - like I couldn’t properly

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The Best Fucking Threesome Guide

If there’s one thing I’ve learned since I’ve been writing an agony aunt column, it’s that people are really really into the idea of having threesomes. I get questions about this all the time - so I

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Fucking Solid Relationship Tips

Fucking Solid Relationship Tips
True Intimacy is Kind of Gross  
After one failed marriage and few purely sexual relationships that I thought I wanted to become more, I finally

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Polyamory 101: The Ethical Guide to Non-Monogamy

I get asked a lot of questions about polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Not just by people who write into my column: by curious family members, by friends of my parents, by people I bump into in my

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Relationship Communication 101

Why do so many relationships fail? Basically it boils down to bad relationship communication. So we've broken it down for you to the basics of good communication and how to get what you want

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Ask Abi's Secret to Online Dating

It’s been a long time coming, but the Fuck.com online dating section is finally here. If you’re thinking about signing up, you’ve probably got some questions - and online dating is one of the

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The three Cs of better sex: They’re not what you think...

 
Why being good In bed Is probably a myth
 


It’s the age-old question, overheard at shared hangover

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The phenomenon of a post divorce sex revolution

Post divorce sex doesn't have to be a scary world of terrible dates and urban legends of lonely old crones in caves. There are, unfortunately, a lot of unexplained social taboos placed on

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7 First date ideas that don't suck

Brainstorming first date ideas is a bit nerve-wracking even for those of us who are already over most of the ridiculous Hollywoodised game-playing of modern dating culture. Sure, we know that there’s

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What your online dating profile says about you


If you haven’t met your soul mate (or fuck buddy, whatever it is that you are looking for) yet you might decide to give online dating a go and proceed to sign up on the website of

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'The One' vs 'Fuck Buddy' - The importance of love and trust

Love and romance, cue music and flowers, hearts and lollipops! Is it real? Should you go all out to create this monogamous and committed life forever with one single person? Lives change and

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A glossary of excruciating poly jargon

Trying to parse that poly jargon? Communities often have a need for a vocabulary of their own. When you’re trying to argue for mainstream acceptance of something that not many people know

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The sexual fantasy of being thin

Back when I was eighteen and a recovering bulimic, Kate Harding changed my life forever. Until I discovered the truly incredible (and now late lamented) blog Shapely Prose it had never really

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