
Ass play is obviously any stimulation on the back side. This could include: fingers, mouths, dicks, or toys. When toys get involved, it usually starts with a butt plug, which is used with plenty of lube to gradually expand the rectum. This can also be foreplay or a pleasurable preparatory activity in itself, so, slow and steady wins the race.
A more delicate operation is the anal massage. This should only be done by an experienced and very careful person, who inserts a lubed finger into their partner’s anus. About 1-2 inches inside, at the back, one can find the male G-spot. Gentle, circular movements can produce an orgasm that is very different than the normal peak during penetrative sex.
Get off your ass and start playing! Or for more ideas:
Anal Sex,
Fingering,
Butts